The power of simple kindness is underestimated. People don’t realize how valuable their first impression is, but it’s crucial. Even though Christians shouldn’t judge people, we still do. When we meet someone, we immediately form an opinion about them.
When the world looks at us as Christians, it will either see us as stuck-up snobs or as loving servants.
A smile is a great way to show the world that you’re a loving servant.
I don’t want to talk to someone who’s frowning, sulking, or scowling. But a simple smile, laugh, or compliment can make a huge difference.
I started a new job today. It was a long, busy, and tiring day; but the simple kindness of a couple of my fellow employees made it much better. It wasn’t hard for them to be kind to me, but their kindness had a big impact on me.
So did the unhappy faces, the “helpful” (i.e., bossy) comments, and the ignorance of my presence.
Your little actions can make a big difference.
So how do we learn to smile, even if we’re having a bad day? How do we learn to be genuinely kind?
A joyful heart makes a cheerful face, but when the heart is sad, the spirit is broken. (Proverbs 15:13 NASB)
When you have inner joy, it’ll shine through. You’ll want to share your smile with others.
Being friendly and kind can be hard for me (and maybe for you). But it’s simple to smile, laugh, and use kind words.
You never know who will really appreciate your cheerful smile, hearty laughter, or genuine compliment.
Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken at the proper time. (Proverbs 25:11 NASB)
A word spoken at the right time is beautiful—just like gold and silver.
Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones. (Proverbs 16:24 NASB)
People (including me) appreciate approachability. So make the choice to laugh. Make the choice to ask questions and be friendly. Make the choice to show others your smile. I bet it’s beautiful. 🙂
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