Thanksgiving is an exciting day that combines family togetherness and delicious food. But one difficult aspect of Thanksgiving is that it can feel abstract. After all, what does gratitude look like practically? How should we “do” gratitude in our everyday lives—and on Thanksgiving?
With the exception of quickly mentioning what we’re thankful for, we don’t really practice gratitude on Thanksgiving. We simply check the box that says “be thankful” and then direct our attention to the food, football, and family time. But this Thanksgiving, I encourage you to do more than just mutter a sentence of thanks. Here are five super practical ideas that you implement this Thanksgiving to show gratitude:
1. Spend time with the Lord to thank Him for the ways that He has blessed you.
Everything that you have ultimately comes from God, and He deserves praise for the blessings that He has given you. Set aside time on Thanksgiving to simply thank Him for His blessings—whether that means writing them down, praying aloud to thank Him for them, or expressing your gratitude through singing. Consider reading some Psalms to put your mind in a state of gratitude.
2. Have an attitude of gratitude.
It can be easy to become grouchy and irritated when being with a lot of people for a long time—especially when they’re not very kind or loving people. But try to be as gracious and patient as possible. Aim to follow Christ’s example of compassion and selflessness.
3. Find a way to help.
Whether you’re hosting Thanksgiving dinner in your home or going to a family member’s home to celebrate, find a specific way that you can be helpful. Preparing food, setting the table, washing dishes, and emptying the dishwasher are just a few ideas. Ask the host what he or she would find most helpful (and don’t forget to thank him or her for hosting).
4. Remember those who are struggling and suffering.
Some people aren’t able to celebrate Thanksgiving because they don’t feel well or because they don’t have family members or friends to celebrate with. Pray for those who are in pain (whether it’s physical or emotional). Consider donating your time or resources to a Christian organization that can support them on Thanksgiving.
5. Thank specific people in your life for what they’ve done for you.
People really appreciate being thanked, and I’m sure that there are many people in your life who would appreciate being thanked by you. gratitude. For example, thank your parents for driving you to your soccer games and for helping you with your homework. Or thank your pastor for faithfully preaching God’s Word.
Closing Thoughts
If you’re struggling to be grateful this Thanksgiving, it’s okay. You’re not alone. Everyone is struggling with something. Ultimately, though, we all have a reason to be grateful: Christ sacrificed His life on the cross and rose from the dead so that we could be free and forgiven.
Happy Thanksgiving!
I will praise the name of God with song and magnify Him with thanksgiving. (Psalm 69:30 NASB1995)
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