How to Stop Sitting on the Holier-Than-Thou Throne

There she goes in her tiny shorts and crop top. How dare she enter this church looking like that.

Yikes, how many tattoos does he need? I’m pretty sure that he has 17 on his arm alone.

Wow, her kids are so annoying. I’ll never let my kids act that rowdy.

I have a really bad habit of thinking these terrible, mean thoughts. I have a thought life that would make your skin crawl. Why are my thoughts about others so ugly and dirty?

Refusing to Refute and Continuing to Rant

These judgmental thoughts don’t just hide in the back of my mind; they’re in the forefront. Rarely do I think these kinds of thoughts:

There she goes in her tiny shorts and crop top. Maybe she’s seeking attention, and I should reach out to her.

Yikes, how many tattoos does he need? I’m sure he’s had a difficult life, and I should pray for him.

Wow, her kids are being so annoying. But I bet she’s exhausted and is doing the best she can.

I know that I need to stop my thoughts in their tracks. Before I start ranting (mentally or audibly), I need to stop my thoughts and determine an appropriate response. Because every time I think a demeaning or debasing thought, I assume a position on the Holier-Than-Thou throne. But that throne is a dangerous place to sit.

We’re Not Stuck on the Holier-than-Thou Throne

We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, being ready to punish every disobedience, when your obedience is complete… For it is not the one who commends himself who is approved, but the one whom the Lord commends. (2 Corinthians 10:5-6, 18 ESV)

Friends, we don’t earn brownie points for patting ourselves on the back or sitting on the Holier-Than-Thou throne. We’re approved by God alone.

Likewise, if a thought is against God—whether it’s unloving, prideful, or simply untrue—we can’t just let it come. We have to take it captive so that it falls in line with God’s Word. Maybe that means refuting a lie that Satan tells you, stopping a mean thought that’s entering your mind, or choosing to think well of people.

Loving people is tough. But we don’t just love them with our words and actions. We also love them with our thoughts.  

The only One who deserves to sit on the throne is Christ because He’s our holy and loving King. Once we submit to that fact—and submit our thoughts to Him—we’ll be able to see other people in a new way.