With only a few weeks left until the end of the semester, I’m unable to contain my excitement. I’ve been awaiting the end for so long! I can’t stop thinking about summer plans and a homework-free life. (What even is that?) But first, I have to survive the rest of the semester—and thrive, if possible—because there are several papers, projects, presentations, and exams in my near future.
Let the Stress Commence
I’m stressed thinking about the now—the difficult assignments and the countless hours of studying. I’m tired of not getting to see my family, having little free time, and being around annoying students. I’m sick of living in a small dorm room, forcing myself to be friendly, and attending boring lectures.
But I have to be here. And in the here, I have to be present—fully aware, engaged, and involved. Because there’s no escape from the present, friends.
What is your “present?” Is it a difficult situation at home, work, or school? Maybe it’s a personal struggle? Perhaps, like me, all you can see is the end. You can easily focus on the future, but it’s hard to make the most of the here and now.
I definitely don’t have a problem with being hopeful for the future. Rather, I have a problem with being patient in the present. But the present is where we are.
And we desire that each one of you show the same diligence to the full assurance of hope until the end, that you do not become sluggish, but imitate those who through faith and patience inherit the promises. (Hebrews 6:11-12 NKJV)
No matter how weary we are in our present circumstances, we must be steadfast in our faith. How can we do that practically? Here are three simple suggestions:
1. Make the most of your opportunities.
Though I don’t understand why so many events are happening at the end of the semester, I do know that I need to take advantage of them. I could spend lots of time doing homework (because there’s plenty to do!), or I could get involved. For me personally, I need to attend my friend’s bridal shower and attend the meeting for my ministry group.
2. Make the most of your friendships.
I’m not a super social person, so I like to spend a lot of time alone in my room. But being alone all the time isn’t good for anyone—even introverts. God has blessed me with new relationships at college that I won’t get to nourish for three months. Rather than stay in my room to study, I need to spend time with people by going to meals, striking up conversations with friends, and reaching out to the lonely.
3. Make the most of your relationship with God.
Maybe you’ve been asking God why you have to endure _____. (fill in the blank with any wearying situation). Perhaps you truly believe that your relationship with Him will thrive when your situation gets easier. But there’s no guarantee that it’ll get easier, which is exactly why we must absolutely seek God now. I’m guilty of shortening my devotion time (or even skipping it) so that I can have just a few more minutes of rest. But in the long run, my relationship with God is far more valuable than sleep.
Closing Thoughts
Life is often like finals week—difficult, stressful, and exhausting. It isn’t sinful to be excited about the future, like a break, vacation, or even new circumstances. But diligence and patience are the keys to experiencing joy as we make the most of our wearying situations and wait for the future.
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